Following a breakup that is recent I slept with all the very first man I became remotely drawn to. We have gotten together once or twice on "fuck friend" terms, but my initial small attraction has dissipated into none. The truth is, he is a very good man and i would ike to attempt to keep him as a buddy when possible. How can simply tell him I do not wish to bang him anymore? Saying directly if I want to keep the possibility of being friends that I don't find him sexually attractive seems too cruel, especially. He could be perhaps maybe not probably the most appealing man in the planet and then he said it has been years since he is been with some body and so I do not wish to harm their self-esteem any more.